I / the most beautiful love of my life did something 2 years ago

Omfg! Lady, you and I should tao and be friends. Because this is my story too. Nearly everything is exactly my story, except if you can even believe it, mine is much much worse than even your story.... Huge hugs

.. she told me she was going to the Melbourne Cup with girlfriends but went with a man that had been hanging around her for a few years before I came along. We had been together 12 months by that time. I stumbled on to text messages (without prying) walking past her iphone declaring undying love for her going to the kitchen etc. On my darling's description (many times) he is ‘rich and powerful' and she sent me pictures of herself at the track in the Birdcage and generally having a great time. I could never phone her – she would not answer and said that she was with girlfriends. The thing is the last race ladies day she asked me to be ‘life partners' yet that night she called me from her (his) motel room while he was having a shower and did the small talk thing.

We have (and have had) and amazing sole mate relationship of extraordinary and unusual synergies and commonalities

The thing is ... the week that she came home from the Melbourne Cup she has only showed me the most devotion and love ... despite ‘him' texting and hanging around for the next 2 years ... making it extremely difficult. I contacted her hotel in Melbourne (per chance) and the staff there basically told me who the room was booked in etc etc ... that in itself was also very unusual. But today over 2 years after I still have intruding thoughts and crazy thoughts ... my darling loves me unreservedly ... yet I cant get over those 7 nights see spent with a rich and powerful man over 2 years ago.

Could someone help me put the pain behind me and just accept my beautiful partners love without the ruminating thoughts of thinking about the dress that she chose to wear to the cup with him

I realize mulheres coreanas chinesas ou japonesas que namoram I am pushing her away ... and I dont understand it. I have the lowest self esteem following and have tried to get therapy since to no avail ... tell me how that made you feel didn't cut it for me. But this article (and I have read many) resounded with me ... there were many days that I thought I wouldn't get through, I put on over 20 kg and somehow put on a smiling face most of the time while dying inside. I dont know why I cant let it be and just get over it. She has told me if i ask her what happened in the motel room that it will break our connection and be the end of us as she doesn't want me to force he to talk about it.

I feel I am ruining the best thing in my life ... we have been together nearly over 3 years now ... I would have asked her to marry me by now other than being scarred that she might always get a better offer ... even though she has proved that she doesnt want him and never really did ... I think . I loved the article ... the most ‘on the money' and thoughtful article I have read in 2 years and there has been 100's of them. .. that she still wears at times ... and sent me a picture on cup day to see her beautiful smiling face while he was no doubt buying drinks.